Type of Guys at the Sauna: meeting BOTTOMS





Are there many cute bottom boys/guys at the gay sauna??? This offcourse is a question that might pop-up in the mind of a top who is interested in visiting a gay sauna. Well there are quite a lot of bottoms/versatiles around in the sauna... But I can honestly say that when you are a bottom, and you are well built and between 20-40 years old and goodlooking, you will be given lots of attention and if you show sexual interest, you will be approached/cruised quite a bit,  by tops or versatiles in the gaysauna.......     

Being a bottom myself...but very rarely having anal sex at the sauna, I also checkout the other bottoms around the premises... their behaviour and how they attract attention from the top/versatile guys...

In the saunas you don't necessarily see the typical stereotypes walking around...its not that the typical feminine gay type is the bottom...here in Europe I hardly notice the girly type in saunas. Offcourse they exist, but most don't get here, or maybe they change their behaviour into more masculine, as that is seen as more attractive in these places ? ... but only when you pay good attention you will notice the clear signs given when a guy wants to make known he is the bottom.




Offcourse because I am darker skinned, and muscular build a lot of people automatically think I am a top...but I am far from being a top. I must be honest and say that their a lot of guys who don't make that assumption offcourse...they keep an open mind......so my advice to you is also keep an open mind...

Usually a guy who is more bottom, will simple put his butt more on display... this can be done with his towel around his waist plunging down so you can see part of his butt/crack. What I have also seen, are guys loosely holding their towel around their waist, while it covers their dick, but the towel (mostly) does not cover their ass.......very big sign that this guy is a bottom and sending out the message he is a bottom......... and needs attention towards that area... 😊

Also getting out of the swimming pool/jacuzzi area and showing off your butt to the other patrons still sitting in the jacuzzi is also a smart move........ keep your well formed ass always towards the guys you find interesting (while drying yourself off with a towel).........usually that works for me...😅

If you notice interest from certain guys....offcourse being in the jacuzzi or swimmingpool gives you a good moment to gentle approach/talk to guys and if you are a top...or in a top mood/mindset and you notice the guy(s) around you are into you, you can gently feel around. Don't be shy to focus all your gentle attention, under water, on his butt area...this will give you a good idea if he is an eager bottom (in your hands...)





If you don't have that much experience as a bottom in a sauna, be extra carefull. Most guys are too horny to take it very slow. Offcourse there are exceptions, but its better if you have the needed experience as a bottom, as things can move quick when you are in a cubicle with a hot guy.
Even if you're more experienced be aware that you are always the one in control, even if you like it rough and hard. Never let anyone think or make you feel different....and for sure don't give the top the idea he is in control... ;-)

If you are a top, don't be shy or selfish, just because you are a horny & attractive guy.
We bottoms are aware of potential top guys, we keep our eyes wide open to figure out whom are potential sexual partners...we also keep a very good eye open about how you treat/handle other guys.

We all notice it when you are in the steamroom, jacuzzi, swimmingpool or under the shower.....
Our eyes are all over the place as we are looking for a top or better said several potential tops/sexual encounters during a wonderfull afternoon/evening....and I as a bottom do make my decisions on how someone comes across with others or just in general.....

Also a comment to the tops/versatiles visting a sauna.....please know that we bottoms are clean.

Every good sauna has facilities to douche, and when we want to get fucked, we have douched... believe you me....so please don't hesitate, when you are privately enjoying eachother to gently stretch a bottom guy...to prepare him for a wonderfull deep penetration... at least I love that and enjoy the fuck so much more intensively and painfree... and therefore as a bottom I can give myself more to the top...let my inner sluttyness free ... 😳😊😏



For us bottoms I have found a link that gives wonderfull advice about becoming that delicious oh so confident willing bottom......how to become an excellent bottom
It has some super great advice for naughty bottoms...much of this information you may already know, but its never too late to learn some new tips & tricks....

Also for our tops, it can be informative to read also, as so you understand us better...and our bottom needs and desire (for you).... because yes we bottoms...adore considerate tops even for bottoms whom like it rough sometimes.......



  


In quite some gay saunas I had the luck to meet attractive top/versatile guys...who were often interested in me as a bottom. Eventhough I rarely had/have anal sex...I loved the attention to my butt, no matter if it was just long intense rimming...or a finger here or there...  Or the humping without penetration, intense bodycontact is/was more then enough for me to get off... and for the top guys as well...

Make sure as a top/versatile to check what the bottom wants...and act accordingly to his response to you...just for the simple fact that when you get a guy/or bottom for a hot sexual encounter, he can and will be eager every step of the way, because you make him feel comfortable and safe.........if you don't pay attention...you for sure will  spoil a great connection/intimate sexual experience...

Most guys think in the sauna its a quick, quick get off situation...but most guys look for a sexual connection...even an intimate sexual connection....because if you want a quick quick get off, there are other cheaper, anonymous and quick options for that...

So take your time...I have had sometimes several intimate sexual connections (in one day) with sexy guys in the sauna...and it was not quick quick.... just explore safely and pay attention to your eager bottom...

You may meet bottoms who like it slow and tender....but also the other spectrum of bottoms...'the powerbottom' ...who is experienced and demanding and might like it harder....
Always listen to a needy bottom, give him/them what they ask for, or simply ask him what he likes. If he asks you for a good ass pounding then give him that...😏.. and believe me you will meet them sooner then you think in the saunas...............

It is great as a top/versatile, to meet different types of bottoms and have a gentle sensual encounter...and an hour or 2 hours later a rougher tumble with a powerbottom.... just enjoy safely!



Also a shout out for the butt lovers out there... don't be ashamed.... we bottoms adore you!!..... really we do, well at least I do!!!

I notice there is still a taboo on that...but I love guys who adore our booty and want to rim as much as they can.......and play with a butt(hole)...

I always make sure to make that connection with such a guy as long as possible...as it does not happen to often... people feel ashamed or its a taboo or maybe because people might be afraid about it because of a hygienic point of view....but in the gay sauna...we shower almost 10 times each hour...and most of us will be clean.... also because we really don't want embarrassing situations.... So go and explore and adore our little firm booties...

I for sure am one of these guys eagerly showing my fitness booty and enjoying the attention it gets me from guys. Especially when you eventually end up connecting with a guy, I like it as shown in all the pictures/gifs in this message/chapter....

Usually this type of sexual act is not done in the wide open spaces offcourse, besides maybe in some shower areas...also underwater in the jacuzzi a lot of appreciation is shown to certain bodyparts....nothing to be ashamed of...it resulted in some hot and wonderfull sexual connections and encounters with very attrractive top/versatile guys eventually following you into a cubicle......






Offcourse it all depends on the curcimstances...but depending on both desires, yes you can fuck in the gay sauna....and meet plenty of bottoms....usually the relax cabins are big enough and provided with mattrasses, so you can roll around and there is enough space to have a passionate penetrative encounter....

Just make sure you have a condom and lube... bring your own favourite ones, and grab them from your locker when the guy you end up rolling around with wants to be fucked or fuck you...

Have lots of safe fun...and once again don't be shy or afraid to make someone else feel good and sexy... you in return will have much pleasure from it also directly or indirectly...because again, we bottoms eagarly keep an eye out for that hot top/versatile to satisfy our naughty needs...

Enjoy and be safe...

Below some hot pictures for your entertainment......































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