First day at the Gay Sauna ??
Here’s the thing, we all want sex, attention, fun, intamacy..... All of us do.
Whether it’s from meeting each other in a bar, or texting (or rather sexting) on Grindr, Tinder, Scruff, whatever, we all kinda want to have sex.
Now why
not bypass all of the chitchat and planning, and go to a place where
all the people are looking for the same thing. And yes you may
find some guy looking at you who you don’t find attractive, but you can
always say no, like when you are in a bar or onlin or in real life.
Most gay guys have Grindr or something similar, which they use to hook up with if they want. Well a 'gay sauna' is like a live version of Grindr, where you can say yes or no right on the spot and the location is already set. Plus there’s no need for exchange of pics or info, it’s all right at visible with a towel wrapped around it 😜
And if you actually talk to one another, you meet some amazing people.
So here’s the deal, if you wanna try a bathhouse, there are some great fun ones out there. You can always Google them beforehand to see if the environment is safe and clean and always be sure to look at user reviews. Also, always be safe. Make sure you have a condom on you at all times, as well as lube or are on PREP. If someone insists on unsafe sex, then move along. And if you want, go with someone you trust for the first time, it really makes you feel safer in case you feel unsafe/insecure to begin with.
Always be sure to remain sober and your safety and consent are always priority. If anyone violates that, staff are always present (and I have seen them intervene, they are lovely people). And most importantly, go have fun. If you wanna get off, then go ahead and do it, you may surprise yourself and if you don't want to get off, just enjoy the facilities.
I am an avid sporter, and therefore do love jacuzzis, finnish or steam saunas, as it relaxes my body and muscles, after so many weeks of intense sport. So even if I don't meet any nice guy, I always have a very nice and fun time at the spa, talking and maybe some little bit flirting with the guys...
I never felt any pressure, besides guys giving you lots off attention in hope you find them attractive or that they at least can talk with you.....or to get close to you. Yes sometimes there is a touch you don't like, but I usually immediately inform them and tell them I am not in the mood or horny anymore or do not find them my type/attractive...that solves it quick!
Best is to keep your distance from them...So when guys start to talk to me, and they are not my type, I always make sure I have enough distance... LoL...so yo don't get the unexpected brush/caress ;-)
Yes, offcourse sometimes I was dissappointed that there were no/not enough cute guys around to flirt with and hopefully frolic with....but that is part of the game I guess.
Yes in the sauna all ages visit...most are between 30-45 years old, but you also have youngster days at some of the big city saunas, and usually there are quite some of these guys around after work/college hours. But I tend to go more for the guys 35-50 years slim/athletic build.
Offcourse when you are the type who likes to talk with people, you will have plenty of fun, just chatting with everyone, as most guys are arriving on their own, or you get the gay couples who seem to be more open towards others, due to the fact that they are not alone and dare to talk to others, and hope to meet gorgeous guys for a menage-et-trois...i guess.
At The Gay Sauna:
When you enter a sauna, you pay at the entrence and get immediately to the changing area where you can change:
From here you can first take a shower, or walk around first to get an impression of the building/facilities and guys....
You basically can be on you're own the entire time or meet guys anywhere in the gay sauna:
The Bar Area:
At the bar, while sitting around the lounge area making eye-contact, have a chitchat with a guy you find friendly/cute...or first having a drink on your own, or get offered a drink or offer a drink to the guy you find attractive and/or want to talk with... depending on this you will see what might happen while going with him/them into another area...
Its all up to you....and the other guy(s)....
Or meet someone in the Jacuzzi or Swimming Pool...which is an intimate and popular spot to talk and check eachother out. As you step into the jacuzzi completely naked you can immediately see all the important physical attributes of a guy, you might find that very interesting.
And if he comes and sit next/close to you...and you have some eye contact, you can be assured that, beside talking with eachother, hands and fingers will find there way... and you may leave it to that.... or you can move on to one of the restrooms with him...its all up to you... no pressure or obligations...
The Showers
You can also meet guys while taking a shower......this happens to me regularly...you are nicely soaping in your body...and casual looking around...usually there is also someone else taking a shower.......who is admiring you're body/looks...so just smile and say hi...usually that breaks the ice and some talking starts...or its easier to get in contact when you see him later at the bar area or walking around...
It all depends, some guys are quite easy in approaching guys and are gentle about it, and they don't wait hours to get in contact with you... also here again, you are free to go along with his suave moves, or just laugh it off and kindly refuse... or join him at other areas of the sauna....
The SteamRoom/Dry Sauna
Besides a wonderfull warm place to relax and let your muscle loose after hard work or sports, this area in the gay sauna is usually quite busy. It is most of the time gently/soft lid, so you can see people just about. Offcourse it is not bright lights. People here meet eachother by standing/sitting next to eachother, while gently approaching eachother in the hope that there is a mutual (sexual) attraction.
Yes quite some action happens if if you want, you can enjoy (lots) of oral and kissing fun here.... with most men being quite horny when being in the steamroom...
Again here nothing is forced or mandatory...I have been in the steamroom many times without having sex or being bothered much, beside just men walking past you several times and looking at you.
The men do walk past you many times or slowly to make aware that they are interested. When you do not respond, maybe standing right next to you and/or a small touch can also occur but if you do not respond to that, they will look for sexual luck somewhere else.
Besides just playing a bit in the steamroom, some guys choose to ask you to go to a relaxroom for some more inimacy/discretion/privacy.... as the other horny guys in the steamroom sometimes will, uninvited, try to jump in the fun 😳
Offcourse, you are totally free to just only have fun in the steamroom....all is up to you.
Sometimes in the Dry sauna/Finnish Sauna, some action might also take place...usually the older patrons like this particular room/place to cruise...interesting enough... most of the time you might only see a semi-erect penis here, as usually most action takes place in the Steam Room.
Sometimes when it is a very busy day at the spa, and there are lots of guys around, the steamroom and other rooms often ends up being very sexually charged....
It can be fun to watch sometimes what happens and how people behave to get the attention of a guy they find interesting...when they are horny.... or what you will do😏.
Basically just follow you're own drum...and do whatever you like safely!!
I have also added a Movie of how from beginning to end a lovely day can be at the Gay Sauna.
Whether it’s from meeting each other in a bar, or texting (or rather sexting) on Grindr, Tinder, Scruff, whatever, we all kinda want to have sex.
Most gay guys have Grindr or something similar, which they use to hook up with if they want. Well a 'gay sauna' is like a live version of Grindr, where you can say yes or no right on the spot and the location is already set. Plus there’s no need for exchange of pics or info, it’s all right at visible with a towel wrapped around it 😜
And if you actually talk to one another, you meet some amazing people.
So here’s the deal, if you wanna try a bathhouse, there are some great fun ones out there. You can always Google them beforehand to see if the environment is safe and clean and always be sure to look at user reviews. Also, always be safe. Make sure you have a condom on you at all times, as well as lube or are on PREP. If someone insists on unsafe sex, then move along. And if you want, go with someone you trust for the first time, it really makes you feel safer in case you feel unsafe/insecure to begin with.
Always be sure to remain sober and your safety and consent are always priority. If anyone violates that, staff are always present (and I have seen them intervene, they are lovely people). And most importantly, go have fun. If you wanna get off, then go ahead and do it, you may surprise yourself and if you don't want to get off, just enjoy the facilities.
I am an avid sporter, and therefore do love jacuzzis, finnish or steam saunas, as it relaxes my body and muscles, after so many weeks of intense sport. So even if I don't meet any nice guy, I always have a very nice and fun time at the spa, talking and maybe some little bit flirting with the guys...
I never felt any pressure, besides guys giving you lots off attention in hope you find them attractive or that they at least can talk with you.....or to get close to you. Yes sometimes there is a touch you don't like, but I usually immediately inform them and tell them I am not in the mood or horny anymore or do not find them my type/attractive...that solves it quick!
Best is to keep your distance from them...So when guys start to talk to me, and they are not my type, I always make sure I have enough distance... LoL...so yo don't get the unexpected brush/caress ;-)
Yes, offcourse sometimes I was dissappointed that there were no/not enough cute guys around to flirt with and hopefully frolic with....but that is part of the game I guess.
Yes in the sauna all ages visit...most are between 30-45 years old, but you also have youngster days at some of the big city saunas, and usually there are quite some of these guys around after work/college hours. But I tend to go more for the guys 35-50 years slim/athletic build.
Offcourse when you are the type who likes to talk with people, you will have plenty of fun, just chatting with everyone, as most guys are arriving on their own, or you get the gay couples who seem to be more open towards others, due to the fact that they are not alone and dare to talk to others, and hope to meet gorgeous guys for a menage-et-trois...i guess.
At The Gay Sauna:
When you enter a sauna, you pay at the entrence and get immediately to the changing area where you can change:
From here you can first take a shower, or walk around first to get an impression of the building/facilities and guys....
You basically can be on you're own the entire time or meet guys anywhere in the gay sauna:
The Bar Area:
At the bar, while sitting around the lounge area making eye-contact, have a chitchat with a guy you find friendly/cute...or first having a drink on your own, or get offered a drink or offer a drink to the guy you find attractive and/or want to talk with... depending on this you will see what might happen while going with him/them into another area...
Its all up to you....and the other guy(s)....
Or meet someone in the Jacuzzi or Swimming Pool...which is an intimate and popular spot to talk and check eachother out. As you step into the jacuzzi completely naked you can immediately see all the important physical attributes of a guy, you might find that very interesting.
And if he comes and sit next/close to you...and you have some eye contact, you can be assured that, beside talking with eachother, hands and fingers will find there way... and you may leave it to that.... or you can move on to one of the restrooms with him...its all up to you... no pressure or obligations...
The RestRoom Area
You can also meet up with guys while walking around the restrooms and flirting, making eye contact with the guys walking around that area also. You can look around and check out the guys, and when you are interested in someone look at him for just a second longer or turn your head to take a second look. Usually that gives out a subtle sign that you are interested, and start talking or jump into a cubicle/restroom immediately, here you can explore eachother a bit more.
Sometimes this might be a bit quick/short, because you figure out that you and the other guy are not a match or you even change your mind about him. Just be kind and nice about it...and be honest in a kind way and excuse yourself(s) with a smile. Even if you are nervous about it all.....
Lets make one thing clear, you are here not to find a potential marriage candidate..... so take it lightly also if a your approach towards a guy does not lead into sex......people are here just for a fun and sexy time....a casual hook-up....
You can also meet guys while taking a shower......this happens to me regularly...you are nicely soaping in your body...and casual looking around...usually there is also someone else taking a shower.......who is admiring you're body/looks...so just smile and say hi...usually that breaks the ice and some talking starts...or its easier to get in contact when you see him later at the bar area or walking around...
It all depends, some guys are quite easy in approaching guys and are gentle about it, and they don't wait hours to get in contact with you... also here again, you are free to go along with his suave moves, or just laugh it off and kindly refuse... or join him at other areas of the sauna....
The SteamRoom/Dry Sauna
Besides a wonderfull warm place to relax and let your muscle loose after hard work or sports, this area in the gay sauna is usually quite busy. It is most of the time gently/soft lid, so you can see people just about. Offcourse it is not bright lights. People here meet eachother by standing/sitting next to eachother, while gently approaching eachother in the hope that there is a mutual (sexual) attraction.
Yes quite some action happens if if you want, you can enjoy (lots) of oral and kissing fun here.... with most men being quite horny when being in the steamroom...
Again here nothing is forced or mandatory...I have been in the steamroom many times without having sex or being bothered much, beside just men walking past you several times and looking at you.
The men do walk past you many times or slowly to make aware that they are interested. When you do not respond, maybe standing right next to you and/or a small touch can also occur but if you do not respond to that, they will look for sexual luck somewhere else.
Besides just playing a bit in the steamroom, some guys choose to ask you to go to a relaxroom for some more inimacy/discretion/privacy.... as the other horny guys in the steamroom sometimes will, uninvited, try to jump in the fun 😳
Offcourse, you are totally free to just only have fun in the steamroom....all is up to you.
Sometimes in the Dry sauna/Finnish Sauna, some action might also take place...usually the older patrons like this particular room/place to cruise...interesting enough... most of the time you might only see a semi-erect penis here, as usually most action takes place in the Steam Room.
Sometimes when it is a very busy day at the spa, and there are lots of guys around, the steamroom and other rooms often ends up being very sexually charged....
It can be fun to watch sometimes what happens and how people behave to get the attention of a guy they find interesting...when they are horny.... or what you will do😏.
Basically just follow you're own drum...and do whatever you like safely!!
I have also added a Movie of how from beginning to end a lovely day can be at the Gay Sauna.
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